Looking at…

“During these travels, I’ve done a lot of things that, upon the re-telling, cause people to look at me aghast. Hitchhiking? Yup. Staying with strangers? Yup. Hiking in incredibly rural mountains, sans guide? Yup. Not booking a place to stay ahead of time? Yup. Sleeping in bus stations? Yup. And I’ve been to places that cause people to shrink back: Burundi, the deadly mines of Potosí, even Siberia. But you know, many of these experiences have been the most rewarding and revealing.

The next comment I get is, “wow, you’re incredibly brave!” Here’s the thing: I’m not. Here’s the extra thing: I’m far from it; I’m anxious. As in, clinically anxious. There are things that scare me that shouldn’t, and I have the capacity to worry myself literally crazy. And it’s not as if my travels are absent of worries. But I’ve realized that the things many people worry about are misguided. So I go on and do my travel thing.”


I am now writing a travel advice column over at The Beautiful Wild Magazine! Check out the intro and the answer to my first reader question, on traveling with student debt. If you’re curious about how I’ve done what I’ve done after reading any posts on here, ask away! I’ll do my best to dispense good advice in my articles over there.

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14 responses to “Looking at…”

  1. BabetaRuns Avatar

    Wohooo! Love it!

  2. Ibrahim Azhar Avatar

    Travelling to places with poor media reputation can be rewarding as most of the news are exaggerated. One could only tell by having an experience.
    Same is the case with people visiting Pakistan.

    1. Leah (Went Looking) Avatar

      This is often true! I haven’t been to Pakistan yet but one of my best friends will be getting married there and I plan to attend if I can.

  3. realplacespeoplestories Avatar
    realplacespeoplestories

    I can really related to the anxious issue! However, we still do things that many would never do! So in most peoples eyes we are some of the bravest! :) I hope we can meet one day! I think we are very alike!
    Congrats with column in “The Beautiful Wild” magazine. I will take a look at it now :)

    1. Leah (Went Looking) Avatar

      This is very true! I think in some ways we have realized how we can stretch ourselves to do more and more. :) I would definitely love to meet you because we are alike, it’s true! You have a place to stay in Seattle if you come here but maybe we can cross paths somewhere else too. :)

  4. Shelby Avatar

    Congratulations on your new travel writing project! That is exciting :)

  5. altruisticmuse Avatar

    It is just inspiring to read about all the places you have been, it makes me relive all the places I have been to, even though they might not have been such exotic ones. But my bucket list is still long and I am sure one day I will be able to tick them all off. :)

  6. tata063421 Avatar
    tata063421

    Любые путешествия – это здорово!

  7. gemsjournal Avatar

    I still think you are brave and have something special inside of you that leads you to do things not a lot of people can, its amazing

  8. Joanne McCullough Avatar

    Great article..keep it up. I am inspired to travel, it fills my soul. For now, as a mom of two young boys, my travel is back in time through my memories… https://jotraveller.wordpress.com/2015/05/27/here-we-go

  9. Jerriann Sullivan Avatar

    Congrats on the new writing gig! You will definitely help future travelers :)

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